...I'm gonna get married again.
Since everything's different, I don't think a 'normal' wedding would fit the situation. A mix between both... yeah, that feels right. Since there have been interracial marriages before - Spock's parents being one of the few about I know - I don't think it could be a problem with Starfleet. Although... getting them to allow us to serve on the same ship? I think I have to call in some favours at Starfleet headquarters.
I'd bet a bottle of Romulan ale - if Uhura hears about it, she'd want to create script - so to speak - for the wedding, to assure it'll be a perfect meld.